“Peace is both an innate state of being and a dynamic, transformative, and evolutionary process.”

This reflection from Avon Mattison, Founder of Pathways To Peace, resonates strongly with the principles that underpin restorative practice. Peace is not simply the absence of conflict. It is built through our thoughts, words, actions, and the way we choose to engage with one another, particularly when there are significant differences between us.

In our work, we sometimes support individuals whose offences and beliefs have caused considerable harm and division within communities. These cases can evoke strong emotions and challenge us to look beyond labels, focusing instead on the person in front of us and their capacity for positive change.

One woman we supported had been linked to a highly publicised offence that generated significant public concern. She carried deep feelings of grievance and distrust towards systems and institutions. Through patience, consistency, and a respectful working relationship, trust gradually developed. Practical support around obtaining identification documents, opening a bank account, creating a CV, exploring housing options, and building confidence helped her begin to see possibilities for the future that she had previously struggled to imagine.

What stood out throughout this journey was how practical support and genuine human connection contributed to a growing sense of self-worth and stability. As her confidence increased, she became more able to engage positively with those around her and to take proactive steps towards rebuilding her life. It was a reminder that when individuals develop a sense of inner peace, they are often better equipped to contribute positively to their communities.

Another individual had engaged well with support but faced significant setbacks when he became homeless. Determined to distance himself from environments associated with substance misuse and negative influences, he found himself sleeping rough. Despite these challenges, he remained engaged. Support focused on meeting immediate needs, helping him access food, clothing, and essential items while maintaining regular contact and encouragement.

His circumstances were difficult, yet his willingness to continue engaging demonstrated remarkable resilience. By maintaining a supportive relationship during a period of crisis, it was possible to help him remain connected to services and continue working towards a safer and more stable future.

These experiences also highlight another important aspect of peace. The individuals being supported held beliefs and backgrounds that differed significantly from those of the professionals working alongside them. In some instances, those differences spanned ethnicity, culture, and religion. Yet meaningful progress was only possible because the relationship was grounded in dignity, respect, and humanity.

The International Day of Peace reminds us that peace is not created by surrounding ourselves with people who are the same as us. Rather, it is strengthened when we choose to treat one another with kindness and respect despite our differences. By doing so, we create opportunities for understanding, accountability, growth, and reconciliation.

As Avon Mattison observed:

“At Pathways To Peace, we believe Peace begins within each individual and radiates outward through our thoughts, words, and actions.”

The stories above demonstrate that this principle is not merely aspirational. Whether helping someone rebuild confidence, supporting them through homelessness, or maintaining a respectful relationship across significant personal and ideological differences, small acts of compassion can create ripple effects that extend far beyond the individual.

This International Day of Peace, we recognise that lasting peace is an ongoing process. It is built through cooperation, understanding, and the belief that every person deserves the opportunity to move forward. By supporting people to find stability, dignity, and purpose, we contribute not only to their rehabilitation but also to safer, stronger, and more peaceful communities for all.